Have you ever started to get ready for a night out, and you try on so many different outfits? Only to realise that nothing fits properly, and you don’t have anything to wear. And you just look ugly and disgusting, and so you have a mental breakdown for a few minutes? Feeling sorry for yourself?
Yeah, well you’re not alone sister. Take a seat in the back cause nearly all girls go through this at some point.
Why do we do this to ourselves? Why do we treat our bodies so badly, instead of thanking them for all the amazing things they’ve done to us?
It’s time that we start giving our bodies, our skin and all our features the real love they deserve. So here’s what you could be doing when you feel like you’re spiraling down into the not feeling hot phase.
1. Pamper yourself
This should always be your first step because it will help you get a fresh look at yourself. And pampering doesn’t need to be an expensive trip to the spa, you could easily do it at home for just a few euros.
Get a bath bomb if you have a bath, or just take a nice long shower. Wash your hair, maybe shave your legs, use a scrub soap to get all the bad skin cells off. Hell try a home face mask, or under eye gels. Moisturise your skin, paint your nails, style your hair or fix your eyebrows.
The key here is effort. Put a little bit of effort into caring for yourself, and you’ll see results instantly.
2. Get Sexy lingerie
Whether you already have or you have to go shopping for it, make sure to put on some sexy lingerie. Even if you’re just going to work and it will be hiding under your clothes, wear it anyway.
Knowing how good you look underneath will give you the boost you need to bring your sexy back.
If you’re feeling a bit frisky, why not wear thigh high stockings? They have a way of shaping your legs, and the little lacy part on your thigh looks very sexy.
Dancing is practically the sexiest form of movement for humans. Put on your favourite music and dance your heart and soul out. Find yourself a mirror and flirt with yourself, give a few sexy looks, maybe even shake your butt a little or a lot whatever you like.
If you’re not into dancing try some other form of exercise, because when you get active your body releases endorphins which are your happy hormones. As a result, you will have a better mood and naturally feel sexier.
4. Plan a sexy date night or take yourself out
Planning to go to an event will force to dress up nice, and maybe even have your sexy lingerie underneath 😉. If you’re seeing someone, or if you have a long term partner then you should plan a date for the two of you. Ask your partner to dress up too, that way you’ll feel more confident together.
If you’re not seeing anyone then don’t worry! Take yourself out, because you deserve it. Put on your best dress, and go down to the bar or to a restaurant. And no, no one is looking at you eating alone, it’s all in your head. Just push yourself to go out
5. Read erotica
The reason that we are obsessed with erotica is that it allows you to shape the story any way you want. Unlike watching a video, an erotica story does not impose any ideas in your head and you can shape the characters, the scene and the smell any way you want. Which most often is the way pleases you.
Plus, because you are reading you are forcing your brain to focus. This will help you to disconnect from the outside world, and really connect with the story. So hop onto our erotica section and immerse yourself in one of our stories. We guarantee that you’ll be feeling sexy again in no time.
Masturbating has countless benefits to your mind, body and soul. But one of it’s main features is getting you to connect with your body. Exploring your pleasures and getting horny usually results in you feeling more confident and sexier.
So, what do you think of our tips? Do you have any other ways that can help others? Let us know! And if you’d like to recommend our next blog post just send us an email at [email protected]